Goals of family therapy
The objective of the family counselling is not to determine whether it is in the child(ren)'s best interests to have / not have a relationship with one of the parents. Rather, the parents agree it
is in the child(ren)'s best interests to have meaningful relationships with both parents. The family counselling intervention is intended to help the child(ren) have healthy and meaningful relationships with both parents.
Family therapy sessions may include individual adult sessions, joint adult sessions (where assessed as appropriate), individual sessions with chldren, and / or parent/child sessions.
The goals of the counselling may include:
a. foster overall healthy child adjustment;
b. facilitate the implementation of the previously agreed-to parenting plan or Court Orders
c. restore, develop, or facilitate adequate parenting and co-parenting functioning and skills;
d. assist the parents to resolve relevant parent-child conflicts;
e. develop family communication skills and effective approaches to problem-solving;
f. assist the parents to fully understand the child(ren)'s needs for healthy relationships with both parents and
the negative repercussions for the child(ren) of a severed or compromised relationship with a parent in
their young lives and as adults;
g. assist the parents and their child(ren) to identify and separate each child's needs and views from each parent's
needs and views;
h. work with each family member to establish more appropriate parent-parent and parent-child roles
and boundaries;
k. assist the child(ren) to differentiate self from others and exercise age-appropriate autonomy;
l. assist each parent to distinguish valid concerns from overly negative, critical, and generalised views
relating to the other parent.